MelanieToniaEvans
Reviews and Complaints

MTE's tools for healing are incredibly evolved and have been cultivated by someone who has transcended the soul deconstruction that is narcistic abuse. This level of abuse takes more than talk therapy it really requires the body/soul work. Having experienced two narcisitic relationships myself I can attest to the deep efficacy of the NARP modules. I admire MTE's authenticity that seems to comes from her healing journey which she so generously shares.

First off, I still use MTE's work. I have had a lot of great progress with NARP and I appreciated the world of somatic healing that her content helped introduce me into, in a digestible and convenient way.

I once joined one of her closer cohorts called "super-thriver." Basically it was a 12 month intensive, 8 hours for 3 days, for 3 weeks, then an 8 hour session once a month thereafter. There were some great breakthroughs there, but we also got to see some of the inner workings, some of which were interesting, some of which were... funny.

First off, she unfortunately lost her voice on one of the weekends, and so wasn't able to conduct the live healing sessions she purported that this superthriver would give to us. She switched into "conducting silent sessions", so for a couple of days, the healing would be just us sitting in silence and her, i guess, thinking the guided meditation and that was supposed to have the effect on us. She ended up rescheduling it on a day that I didn't have planned to be off work, and so i and I'm sure a lot of people there in this group, wouldn't be able to attend and would have to watch the replay. I reached out asking if we could add any supplemental days or do a poll of some kind to see if we can do the rescheduled session on a day that the majority of people would be available.

The response...lol...from a member of her team, was, no, they weren't going to make any changes to accommodate in that way, but this is what was said, and I'm copying and pasting from the email:

"Any belief you have that the healings do not work so well in replay is something that can be addressed in your NARP modules, as it is just that - a belief. Time is a human construct and everything happens in the moment of now - so every time you enter the group healing space, everyone is there who ever has, or ever will access it."

I giggled. There was a money back guarantee after the first 3 months, like if you didn't like it you can opt out and ask for your money back. I definitely knew i was going to do that, but I stayed one more day just to make sure.

That session, there were some great things going on, until one of the ladies came on, living in Finland, asking about her children and how NARP can help her be a better mother.

What MTE said to her took my breath out of my body:

"Well it's good that you're raising your kids in the Finland and not like Australia or the US, where all they teach kids is transgenderism and critical race theory."

I didn't know you could feel *ICE* inside a zoom call. The woman stammered, trying to counter her, then she sort of doubled down on it? Oh it was madness. I couldn't believe it--well I could, actually, I think all spiritual healers have that sort of fatal betrayal quality about them. Hers was just...idk a susceptibility to fascist rhetoric? I dunno.

Needless to say I got my money back. But soon after, one of her senior moderators/team members quit. Now this woman was *DYN*amite. Almost sort of like the caboose, the real juice of the operation. She had incredible insight, she was kind, empathetic, sweet, quirky, and fun, and was a ray of sunshine (and often a smoother-over of things) in the few super thriver sessions we had.

A post was made about her departure by the administrative team on the message board that NARPers (people who are in the thriver program, but not the super-thriver program) have access to (it was a cool space..for a time, but anyway)--they said that she had left, but the way they described it, I felt was very unsettling...whoever wrote it basically made it seem like this woman had transgressed them, acted dramatically, and, you know, was the aggressor and all that, they just really egregiously victimized themselves over this woman. Nobody bought it. There was so much support for her despite attempts to make her look bad. MTE's program, her social media and youtube, etc etc, really just hasn't been the same since. It's been emptier, less sincere...

Just last week she put out some new recordings for NARPers to be able to use, that were quicker, "speedy shifts"--lol, you can hear, like, editing discrepancies, like the mic cutting off abruptly and things like that--it just sounded thrown together. So, my heart goes out to the program and to her team, as well as her despite that horrific comment...but yeah, even though I still believe in the principle of her work, it's definitely something to engage from a distance.

I have to say, I was really impressed with the NARP gold programme offered by MelanieToniaEvans. She really seems to know what she's talking about when it comes to healing from narcissistic abuse. However, I do have some concerns about the moderators who run the forum that comes with the package.

It seems like they've developed a bit of a superiority complex, and they're quick to shut down anyone who brings up any issues with the programme. They use a lot of patronising therapeutic language, and it feels like they're more interested in maintaining their own power than actually helping people heal.

I've seen this kind of thing happen in other groups before, and it's really disappointing to see it happening here without any correction from Melanie. It's like the moderators have become clones of her, repeating her words like parrots and developing a very limited way of seeing the world.

When you communicate with Melanie's team, you don't feel like you're speaking to real people. It's like they've put themselves on a pedestal of perfection and superiority, and anyone who doesn't agree with them is disregarded as "unhealed" or "stuck".

All that being said, I still think the programme itself is great. If you're looking to heal from narcissistic abuse, it's definitely worth checking out. Just be prepared for the cult-like mentality of the moderators if you decide to get involved with the NARP community.

I gotta say, I was pretty excited to join MelanieToniaEvans' program. I mean, she seemed like such a great person, right? But let me tell you, things did not go as planned. First off, I had to give her a perfect rating just to join. Like, what kind of nonsense is that? And then, when I couldn't log in to the NARP gold thingy, I tried to reach out to her for help. But instead of being helpful, she was just plain rude. And to top it off, she deleted my message! Can you believe that? It's like she doesn't care about any of us, she just wants attention and money.

Honestly, I'm starting to think that Melanie is a bit of a narcissist herself. I mean, thank goodness I didn't pay for the program, because I would be livid right now. I used to be her biggest fan, too. I followed her on YouTube and Pinterest, and I even talked about her to my friends who were struggling. But now? I'm done with her. I won't be promoting her or her program anymore. And I certainly won't be saying what a sweet, caring person she is.

The thing is, Melanie never helped me get logged in. She was just plain mean to me because I had to keep asking for help. And honestly, I believe all the other people online who have had similar experiences. When I used to see bad reviews about her, I would stick up for her. But now? I know better. She's not my friend or my teacher. She's just a self-absorbed mean witch.

And you know what? All these so-called "experts" who make big bucks online? They're all phonies. Don't give them a damn dime. They don't deserve it. If you really want help, go to meetings in your area and talk to real people face-to-face. They're the ones who know what they're talking about. This online stuff is just bullsh. And you can always tell when they talk - it's always me, me, me, I, I, I. Well, guess what? It's not about them. It's about YOU. So don't waste your time or your money on these fake experts.

I had high hopes when I decided to join the abuse recovery program offered by MelanieToniaEvans. I'm an optimist and I believe that there are still good people and programs out there that can help those who have been through traumatic experiences. Unfortunately, my experience with NARP was not what I expected. Melanie, like many cult leaders, presents a message of healing that seems to target those who have already been through abuse. I was a member of her program for a short time and was initially confident in the forum component that allowed Gold members to share their experiences and offer support to one another. However, it quickly became clear that there was a lot of monitoring going on and that members were not allowed to speak freely or think for themselves. As a Gold member, I paid over two hundred dollars for online material that I could have found for free elsewhere. I was also censored and banned from the forum when I tried to share my experience and warn others about the program.

It's possible that some people have been helped by Melanie, but it's important to be cautious. She has no formal education or credentials to speak of, yet she declares herself an expert based on her own experiences. This is a red flag for me, as there have been many dangerous cult-like leaders who have done the same. I also know that people are encouraged to write positive reviews about her program, which makes me question the authenticity of those reviews. If you do decide to join her program, be aware of the monitoring and censorship that goes on. And if you think for yourself and speak out, be prepared to be banned. In my opinion, it's best to steer clear of the Melanie Tonia Evans "cult".

MelanieToniaEvans' website offers a spiritual journey to healing your inner child, but the tactics used to promote her program have left a sour taste in the mouths of some survivors. Her Facebook help gatherings, which lead to a free webinar, are closed a week after the webinar airs. These help groups do not allow sharing of pain or answers toward healing that do not involve her $195 NARP program. While she claims that purchasing her program is not necessary, once the webinar airs, the help page is closed, leaving those who did not purchase her program with no support.

As a survivor with education under my belt, I see Melanie as someone who wants to help only if she is paid handsomely for it. Her moderators and she were rude to me personally and others who showed compassion or offered advice that did not contain her NARP program. While her healing your inner child spiritual journey may indeed work, her tactics have all the hallmarks of a narcissistic manipulator, using the pain of others for her own gain.

It is clear that Melanie's supporters will not tolerate anyone who disagrees with her, and instead, they will argue by ripping apart the character of someone they don't know at all. However, my review was based on fact. I never said Melanie was a narcissist, nor did I say her work would not help others. I am not a troll. I have completed the preliminary Facebook help page and the 3+ hour webinar that followed. I know Melanie's website, her history, and her work.

I also know that Melanie can be far from nice to abuse victims, including myself, if they choose to talk about their pain or any other form of help outside of her program, like the need for legal avenues, for instance. Melanie is not a licensed therapist, nor does she write, speak, or freely give of her time without promoting her $195 program.

Before ripping apart the character of those who rate her business poorly, perhaps her supporters should honestly answer these three questions regarding the things we have expressed our displeasure with: Have you been a part of Melanie's closed Facebook webinar pages (or NARP support pages) as an abuse victim and been belittled by an administrator or by Melanie herself? Have you ever attempted to gain Melanie's program at a reduced or no cost rate because you could not afford to pay for it? Have you ever attempted to return Melanie's program for your money back because it did not work for you? If not, the fact is that you have nothing to say to those of us who have.

I stumbled upon Melanie Tonia Evans' website when I was searching for ways to cope with a narcissist. My mother was dating one and I was desperate for help. I've always been interested in new age practices, so I was intrigued by what Melanie had to offer. Her program made me feel like I had the power to overcome anything.

Melanie provides a lot of information about narcissists, which is helpful. If you're into meditation, her program may work for you. However, I caution against buying into the magical thinking that her program will heal you from your childhood wounds. It won't.

I was willing to spend a lot of money on Melanie's program, but I soon realized that her 1-on-1 sessions cost $999 and her program was not worth that much. I don't believe that someone who truly found the secret to healing would charge so much for it. Melanie's life story also seems questionable. She makes you feel inferior and fills you with beliefs that you are deeply wounded and sick. She wants you to believe that you need her program to avoid destruction. It's all a bit much.

Before I found Melanie's program, I was doing just fine. However, after trying her modules for over a year, I began to doubt myself. I started to believe that I had blocks that were preventing me from healing. Melanie's scare tactics made me feel like I needed her program to survive. She talks about how childhood wounds can cause cancer and mental illness, which is just ridiculous.

As a result of Melanie's program, I developed health anxiety and started to believe that I had cancer, Alzheimer's, or a heart attack. I became more stressed and anxious because the modules weren't working for me. Melanie made me feel like my mind had no control over my life and that things would only get worse if I didn't succeed with her program. It was all very overwhelming.

Melanie's program is dangerous for people with OCD. It caused me to develop generalized anxiety, a phobia of mental and physiological illness, and full-blown OCD. I was young and healthy before I found her program, but now I'm left with all of these issues.

Thankfully, I've found a way to heal for real without spending any money or believing in any mumbo jumbo. I'm focusing on reality and my own experiences. Melanie's program made me lose my identity and personality, but I'm slowly gaining them back. The hardest part is training my mind to stop believing the nonsense that Melanie fed me.

I'm done with all the new age things for now. In the future, I may be strong enough to believe in something bigger than myself, but right now, I need to focus on my own healing. I caution against buying Melanie's program. It's not worth the money or the emotional toll it takes on you.

I've been a part of MelanieToniaEvans' program for 4 years now and have invested a lot of time and money into it. Initially, I started doing the program with my sister, but she dropped off after a month while I continued with it as if my life depended on it. I even bought my own gold membership in 2019 when the program was reduced to only half an hour.

The program has helped me in many ways, especially in learning to love myself. However, I've also had a few ego deaths along the way, and the program is not equipped to handle suicide prevention. The moderators on the forums are not professionals, and they don't offer any advice when someone is going through a tough time. It seems like the program is more focused on making money than helping people heal.

I've also noticed that the program has become consumed by profit motive. The free webinars and books are designed to sell more programs, and the program itself is designed to sell even more expensive programs when you're "ready" to let go of your wounds for good. It feels like a cult, especially during the webinars where everyone just showers Melanie with positive comments.

The forums are also very strict, and it's not tolerated to question the advice given or to point out that maybe it's not the best to continue to shift ad nauseam. It feels like a communist dystopia in there, and I've been constantly censored for questioning the program or slightly going over the hope guideline.

After doing the program religiously for years, I still felt persecuted by my own mind when my life wasn't getting better. I became very judgmental of myself and wondered why I wasn't already on the clear. Melanie says that you'll get better in weeks or months, but it's been 4 years and counting for me.

I've since stopped doing the program and feel much better. I'm calmer meditating and going to a real psychologist who has pinpointed in a matter of weeks what I can work on. It's no longer necessary to speak about my parents, and it's time to let go of their influence and Melanie's influence as well.

While the program does help, after 4 years, I started to wonder if there are other ways to heal. It's not necessary to join a cult to heal, and it's important to grab the tools you have and continue on your healing journey. Thank you, Melanie, but it's time to move on.

It's worth noting that when I spoke out, I was perma-banned from the blog. This only confirms my suspicion that it's a cult where no criticism is tolerated. If you do decide to join the program, I recommend doing it alongside a psychologist and being cautious of groupthink. Healing is a life journey, and it's important to find what works for you.

I gotta say, I had a pretty rough experience with MelanieToniaEvans. This woman is seriously nasty when it comes to any kind of criticism. I mean, come on, we're all human and we all make mistakes, right? But not according to Ms. Evans. She's got a serious chip on her shoulder and she's not afraid to let you know it.

If you're looking for some real healing, I'd recommend checking out Louise Hay on YouTube. Her affirmations and audio book "You Can Heal Your Life" are seriously life-changing. I listen to her 40-minute meditation every night before bed and I wake up feeling refreshed and renewed.

But back to Ms. Evans. Let me tell you, this woman is no spiritual guru. She's all about the money and she'll do whatever it takes to protect her business. If you dare to criticize her or her program, she'll come at you with all the fury of a mama bear protecting her cubs. And if that's not bad enough, she'll also remove your posts and send you nasty emails.

I'm not the only one who's had a bad experience with Ms. Evans. There are plenty of other people out there who have been hurt by her and her program. And if you think she's going to take any responsibility for that, think again. She's all about blaming others and playing the victim.

To be honest, I'm not even sure if Ms. Evans is capable of real healing. She seems to have some serious issues of her own, and I wouldn't be surprised if she's a narcissist herself. I mean, just look at the way she responds to criticism. It's like she can't handle anyone questioning her authority.

And if you think that's bad, just wait until you try to get your money back from her. I'm owed $1500 and she won't even respond to my emails. It's like she's trying to avoid me or something.

So, my advice to you is to stay far away from Ms. Evans and her program. Instead, check out Louise Hay and her teachings. She's the real deal and she truly believes in unconditional love.

MelanieToniaEvans, the self-proclaimed "author & expert" on narcissistic abuse and healing, has been making waves in the online world. While her website, melanietoniaevans.com, offers a plethora of articles and videos on the topic, there are some concerns that need to be addressed.

Firstly, her writing style is often redundant, repetitive, and unedited. This can make it difficult to read through her materials, but if you can tolerate it, there is useful information to be found. However, it's important to note that she has no formally published books or articles, other than on other people's blogs. While she doesn't claim to have a formal education, she does seem to want her followers to believe she's an expert. Unfortunately, this is not the case.

Her program, which is available for purchase, is a lot of smoke and mirrors, with little to no basis in scientific fact. The techniques she uses have been around for years and have been repackaged and renamed by her. She asks her "members" to allow her into their space and then to find the pieces of themselves they lost as a child. While it's important to feel it to heal it, her methods can be dangerous for those dealing with PTSD. It's important to seek professional help if you're dealing with trauma and abuse.

Her modules are incredibly long, and this is because she cannot employ brevity to save her life. She repeats herself, rambles, and tries too hard to show how qualified and experienced she is. Her writing is poorly edited, and her articles are nothing more than tools to sell her materials.

While she does have a small group of followers who regard her as a God, it's important to note that there are other professionals out there who can offer better care. Psychotherapists, support groups with facilitators who have been to school, and books by professionals who have dedicated their lives to helping sufferers of trauma and abuse are all better options. It's important to seek the very best care, and MelanieToniaEvans is not the only way to go.

In conclusion, while MelanieToniaEvans offers some useful information on narcissistic abuse and healing, her methods are not backed by scientific fact, and her writing is poorly edited. It's important to seek professional help if you're dealing with trauma and abuse, and to find a support system that works for you. Keep searching for the best care possible.

I recently attended the three-hour seminar by MelanieToniaEvans and wanted to share my thoughts on the experience. The seminar focused on the Quanta Freedom Healing technique, which aims to help individuals connect with their inner selves and heal from past traumas.

The process involves identifying physical pain in the body, determining the age at which the pain is associated, and imagining the pain being removed from each cell of the body and replaced with a ball of white light. Participants are then instructed to imagine themselves as a ball of white light and go back in time to their younger selves, removing their pain and filling them with the white light as well. The process concludes with rating the level of pain and connection to the inner self.

While I can see how this process may be healing for some individuals, I personally did not feel any significant effects during or after the Quanta Freedom Healing technique. I found that spending a day by the river had a more profound impact on my healing and strength to stand up for myself than the exercise.

Additionally, I found the scare tactics used in the marketing of the program to be manipulative. The idea that not doing the program would leave individuals susceptible to narcissists in the future seems unlikely and is a sales technique. I am not afraid of falling prey to narcissists again because I have learned the value of caution and boundaries.

Furthermore, the promise of self-actualization in a few weeks seems lofty, and the program's reliance on non-independently verifiable sources raises red flags. The program also urges the audience to feel rather than think, which is a marketer's dream but not necessarily conducive to effective healing.

Overall, I believe that individuals should trust themselves, do their research, and make informed decisions about their healing journey. The narcissistic abuse victim audience is a vulnerable one, and it is essential to be cautious of sales tactics that prey on their desperation and self-doubt.

In conclusion, I believe that healing is a personal journey that cannot be sold or bought. While the Quanta Freedom Healing program may work for some individuals, it is not a good fit for everyone. It is up to each person to determine what works best for them and to prioritize their healing journey. Remember, you are already self-actualized, and only you know how to make your life worth it. Good luck.

Hey guys,

I bought the NARP program a few months ago and then joined the forum for extra support. I was doing the modules every day, but I found myself stuck in an emotional state that was concerning. I have a history of severe abuse and mental illness, and I am recovering from a brain injury that was the result of a suicide attempt. Melanie kindly suggested that the forum members might have some insight into how to work through these scary feelings. As I had been very stable for a long time and even remitted from depression, I thought it might be good to address a possible spiritual element to my trauma.

I kept feeling worse and worse, and the modules seemed to bring me into what several people have described to me as dark nights of the soul. I am naturally skeptical and a fan of critical thinking, and I made a concerted effort to suspend my disbelief to work with these modules, but achieved no relief. I became frustrated with myself and posted on the forum that I felt perhaps I was too damaged, and since this program is advertised and discussed as really effective for most people, I became scared. Here was more proof to me that I am unhelpable and a freak.

I suggested on the forum that maybe I should stop working with the modules, and I woke up the next day to being banned and refunded. I sent a polite query to Support and received an equally polite yet terse reply that I had offered no other choice but to be banned as I had become combative. I responded to that email with only a polite, careful assertion that I had not been combative. Frustrated, sure. With myself. I had not become in any way threatening or abusive toward anyone on that forum.

For weeks now, I have felt the implications that 1) I am damaged beyond help and was rejected from the group because of this and 2) that I am abusive and potentially narcissistic too, just like my abusers. My skepticism and frustration seemed to elicit an almost hurt feelings response from Support. It was odd, and I haven't been able to shake the feeling of oddness. I've been a meditator for a while now, and I've discussed this with my trauma therapist. I'm fully able to accept my participation and miscommunication in this issue, but it was this fundamentalist attitude that has been tough to fully understand.

I do not think anyone in the NARP program is abusive, scamming, or unable to effectively teach these methods. I believe that this program has awesome empowerment for anyone who is ready for it. And knowing what I know about the human brain, there is something that seems valid in regard to energy healing on a quantum molecular level. I feel that physics, in general, as well as neuroscience, is headed in a quantum direction, and that is exciting!

However, being labeled combative and having no recourse to defend myself or really have any ability to communicate effectively with Support could be a not-good thing for someone in crisis who isn't seeing results and maybe doesn't have a therapist or real-life support system in place while pursuing these methods. Luckily for me, I do.

I understand that the NARP forum rules state that this is self-help and as is, and the user accepts responsibility, but when you're in a weird purgatorial bardo hell state with no end in sight, and Support just kinda boots you for being skeptical and frustrated, it could get ugly. I moved on, and I'm finding some release with other theta meditation practices, namely autogenic hypnosis, and that seems more effective.

As I said, there are good things here. With everything, though, if it's not an exact match, take what works for you and move on. I see that there are Support responses here for other refunded customers, and this review is not an invitation for my forum posts to be rehashed to keep other potential customers aware of my alleged combativeness. That seems in the vein of punishing people for whom this method didn't work.

I guess, in closing, I would urge the creator of this program to be careful of the fears in so many recovering people that if something doesn't work, it's not because that is the best or most effective method for healing, and that as long as healing is the individual's focus, they aren't doomed to more abuse or inability to achieve their life's goals. And should they become frustrated and skeptical during the learning process, maybe don't treat them like they are the actual narcissist.

I do appreciate the refund. I hope everyone has peace, myself included.

Ps- this took some real courage for me to post. I'm really proud of myself.

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