Laura McClure Atlanta reviews and complaints

Transitional victim, short term victim, long term victim... What do they all have in common? VICTIM.

"supply" works too: primary supply, secondary supply...we are all the OW (or OM, in your case).

In the stories posted here, I see a lot of N behaviors (triangulation, going dark for days, blaming/gas lighting, drama, total lack of empathy, and using you as well as lots & lots of meaningless & manipulative words (lies).

I hope that you know you deserve better than this. Untangling from this type of toxicity is hard work...we become addicted to the craziness. Let the guys she's meeting on the Internet be her next victim but take yourself out of it. (She probably got nervous when 'out of her comfort zone' when you wanted THE TRUTH?) This is what they do...

Keep working on YOU and let her go. It’s the way back to health & sanity!

Colin R. Singer, immigration.ca

Let me just set the record straight and that is I was NOT in an arrangement with Laura McClure. Our relationship was a traditional relationship. There are many people well aware of the situation and they are entitled to share their own opinion just like you have shared your own opinion.

I am a friend of Rob MacPherson and thought it would be a good idea to say a few things about Laura McClure (everyone thought her name was Ellie McClure). Laura is the biggest manipulator, user of men, and pathological liar that has ever step on this earth. I believe she is a sociopath as she had no empathy for her actions. Reading stories and actually having a conversation with someone she met on seeking arrangement she needs mental help! What person makes up stories that she had a severe brain injury? I will tell you it’s the same person who lies to get a temporary protective order and steals another person’s property. I also believe that an abused woman whether physically, mentally, or emotionally would not be meeting men on seeking arrangement the same week you are seeking help from domestic abuse. Laura has abused the legal system and is now leaching off the woman’s shelter programs while meeting and getting paid to have sex! I don’t understand how this person can actually get away with all her con games.

What is being told about Laura McClure is the absolute truth! I picked her up at her apartment and went for coffee to discuss an arrangement. She started telling me that when she was jogging in LA she was mugged and as a result had severe brain damage. After doing some smart investigating I found out this girl never had severe brain damage! But something is definitely wrong with her brain. I think she is living on another planet because normal people don’t act this way. I totally believe the stories here and she didn’t even tell me what is transpiring in her life over the last month. I can honestly see how she sucks men up like a vacuum cleaner and spit them out after they run out of money or patience. Glad I was smart enough to do some research!

It is clear that you haven’t read all the responses! If you think being in a relationship with a female sociopath is their partner's fault you are clearly mistaken. Go ahead and do some research on female sociopaths. You will find that the other person in the relationship is clueless. Maybe you should get in a relationship with this individual and experience how a female sociopath has no empathy for their actions, constantly play the victim, and are very good manipulators. I have had a first-hand experience with a male sociopath and agree with everything people have written outlining the life of a female sociopath.

I just concluded reading your story and everyone’s comments about your experience with Laura McClure. You need to understand female sociopaths are PTA mothers, soccer moms, and even the girl next door. They are brutality emotionally and financially destructive. Female Sociopaths have a better time manipulating the court system (as they prey on the sympathy) of lawyers, judges etc, and can fake show their tears much easier than men. These women easily manipulate the court system in their favor with financial judgments, all done by made up lies about the man, false documentation, and coerced ‘statement’s’, thus leaving the men financially ruined. Male victims of a female Sociopath not only have to grasp what they just went through, and accept the hard blow to the ego, but they may also have to fight the ex in the court system for custody, and/or shared custody. And this usually is a very tough battle, as Female Sociopaths have many labels they can hide behind. {ie: these false labels can be physical abuse, financial destitution etc.} And society as a general rule of thumb grants custody to the female parent in most cases. Once again, when dealing with a Sociopath, the same amount of emotional and mental devastation, financial loss, friendships destroyed etc. are not gender specific. Female Sociopaths are just as viscous and vindictive as the male Sociopath. They can make you feel inadequate, violated, and a need to control each and every situation. I have found some great sites about this subject like sociopathlife.

Here are a couple of traits of female sociopaths. I believe Narcissistic Sociopath is not gender related, these people just have different names and faces.
• no real values
• secret lives: hiding money, friends, affairs
• finds men to take care of them financially
• slow to forgive: holds onto resentment
• high blaming behavior: projects faults onto other’s {even her children}
• repeatedly fails to honor financial obligations
• constantly seeking admiration
• she breaks her man’s spirits to keep them dependent: she has a viscous way of cutting you down
• undermines your ability to make choices
• she has to be right she has to win: You will find yourself just ‘giving in’ to keep the peace
• lacks ability to see how she comes across to others: be it verbally, or her actions
• falls in love and wants to marry quickly
• she announces, not discusses ~she tells, not asks
• she does not listen because she does not really care: your opinions are an annoyance.
• she exudes very little empathy and/or sympathy
• You feel miserable with this person as she is draining the life out of you.

If you are honest with yourself you will find that Laura McClure more than likely has the majority of these traits. You should be glad she is out of your life and will be a problem for someone else.

I just read what this EVIL WOMAN, LAURA MCCLURE did to you! The emotional and mental turmoil is overwhelming. It reminds me of my situation when my husband lied to me just like Laura because they don’t care. She’s probably out there just like my husband having sex with others WITHOUT DISCLOSING they have HERPES.

You are probably saying WHY ME? I wish she never picked me as a victim! I go from being angry to depressed instantly. I can’t stop thinking about it and lose focus on everything else in my life. I hope LAURA MCCLURE does the right thing and WILL NEVER INFECT another person. But she is probably like my husband (soon to be ex-husband) and doesn’t think of others. If she thought of others she wouldn't have harmed you in so many ways. I hope LAURA MCCLURE is held accountable for everything she has done to you. I am a Christian so I do get comfort from the Lord but feel I really didn't deserve to be infected by my husband just as you didn’t deserve to be infected by LAURA MCCLURE.

Sorry she should have had “the talk”

I am really sorry that you have contacted herpes from Laura McClure. Like you, I recently found out a few months ago that I have contacted herpes from my ex-boyfriend, Kevin Davis who lives in Philadelphia. You are probably going through the normal flip out phase just like I have for months. I started to wonder if my dating life would now consist of Ben and Jerry’s and DVD’s every Saturday night, Now, I’m ready to get out there again.

I have gone through "the conversation" a million times in my mind. I have seen men post on various dating sites where they come right out on their profile stating they have herpes. And before I found out about my little gem, I would immediately think, "not in my backyard". I think that is a TMI on a profile. I thought that if I meet someone, and there seems to be some sort of vibe, I would have the talk pretty quickly, possibly even the first date. And I wouldn’t be dramatic, just simply say, you need to know something, I have herpes. I control it with medication, but no matter how you slice it, it is what it is.

There are “herpes sites” that gross me out at this point. I have enough common sense that I wouldn’t casually mention this as we are flinging clothing all over the room. It would have been nice of Kevin Davis of Philadelphia to respect me enough to inform me of his herpes before we started to be sexual intimate. You are probably thinking why Laura McClure did not disclosed to me she has herpes. What are your thoughts? Is there a “right time” or “wrong time” to have this discussion?

If ok, I want to jump on my soapbox for a second, if anyone reading this has herpes, do the right thing, and let people know. Don’t join the crowd of Kevin Davis who lives in Philadelphia and works for SEPTA and Laura McClure from Atlanta. One of the most respectful things you can do is informing your partner because it’s their choice to be intimate with you and nobody else.

Don’t be disrespectful like Kevin Davis and Laura McClure! Having herpes is forever, don’t make it forever for someone else – have “the talk”.

I am so very sorry to hear of your experience with Laura McClure. I too was struck by a female Sociopath and every word you written resonate strongly with me. Yes, it can feel like the most vicious attack in your entire life. I lost my home, financial security, my friends, everything thanks to this woman. I understand completely how bad you feel. You were very cruelly violated! I bet you feel your very soul has been ripped to shreds don't you? You're angry and you have every right to be. The drama and chaos she wreaked has broken you!

The good news is that you can and will recover from this. I have a very good friend I made in recovery and she has helped me so much. Her name is Paula and she wrote a book Escaping the Boy and she has her own blog 'IDENTIFYING a NARCISSISTIC SOCIOPATH' and it's for anyone to share their stories of their own experiences with Female Sociopaths and it is where you will receive all the validation and support you need. Another good website is PSYCHOPATH FREE. They also have a book to download and this became my bible.

Once I read it, it all finally fitted together and I was then able to start healing. I am also creating my own blog 'Life, Interrupted: Personal Memoirs from Survivors of narcissistic abuse' which I hope to publish within the next few weeks. Please don't despair because you will get through this, I promise. If there's anything I can do to help, please let me know!