Ukrainian Fiancee Marriage Association [UFMA] review: scam? 101

You are so right! And should know that girls have no Internet and, as a rule, when you are sending msgs to the girl an waiting her respond, the UFMA's managers are leading a chat with you. Girls may come to the office just for communication by Skype and be sure, that you are not only one, whom they decided to start communication and they do know nothing about you before they are not given the information about you from managers...it's all just to splash your money on gifts or make you to arrive in Ukraine

you are wrong. UFMA has real women. A friend of mine has got a wife from them. And I have visited them too. All is real.

Hi Norman

It had been a year since your visit to Kharkiv. How did it go?

Wow Albert! You are such a great guy. So tell us. Which girls are you married to now or are you still writing endless letters?

Easy to blame the other one or UFMA, from your story it's easy to see that yourself did everything wrong with this lady.

So please stop writing on and on that UFMA is a scam as it is NOT. I went there 2 times and met different ladies and then decided to write with only one who I met again in January. UFMA is very professional, great advice, accommodating, and the relationship with this lady is slowly growing into something great! She is very nice, honest, caring and considerate.

Relaxation station. What was the girls name and number? Let’s compare notes. I just put a review of UFMA on trust pilot that Sergey is trying to have removed but it is all true. The girl I was communicating with did somewhat the same thing to me. In short I went to visit here 3 times, letters, chats and we agreed to be married in the Ukraine in August and after I left in June she lied to me and the agency and changed her mind. That’s fine by me. There are 11 million more Slavic women than men. I think I can find 1. But why put me through all that time and expenses for nothing. The girls don’t care. After they are done chatting and writing you they run right back down to the agency and are at it with other men. I don’t think the agency is a scam so to speak. The girls are out of control for money, gifts and having their ego fed when the men visit them. They are not serious about marriage and happen very infrequently. So who was the lady? Name and #.

Philippe, I don’t want to burst your bubble but you are not married yet. Are you at least engaged. Better read the rules of the agency. Men are allowed to enter a relationship with woman they want as long as they are not identified as engaged or married. You have no idea that the lady you are communicating with is communicating with other men at present. If I were you I wouldn’t get my hopes up.

Don’t believe me? Go count the number of married ladies from that site. Last count that I saw was 18. And don’t forget, there are divorces associated with this agency as admitted in a utube video. I hope for your sake she is not 10-15 years older than you.

Let us know how you made out. Do you really think they are sitting on the edge of their couch waiting for you to come back? Go on the site now and then and see if they are logged into their account taking and writing other men. Care to share which ladies you are communicating with? Maybe I met with them and I can give you my impression if you care to know.

Care to fill us in on your experience? Good agency no complaints is not very informative.

You are right. I went to go meet some ladies there and they look nothing like their pictures. I was shocked at some of them. They photoshop the pictures to make them look like models and they are a far cry from reality. Sadly they are not a marriage agency they are a letter writing and chat agency. Very low probability you will find your wife there. Girls just want their egos fed, dinners and gifts.

Interesting comment “UFMA client “ I must ask. How do you know how other clients behave with the ladies from UFMA? Have you ever spoken to any of them? I know the probability is quite low as UFMA doesn’t want clients to even see each other much less talk to one another. I can only imagine because the woman talk to multiple men at the same time and UFMA doesn’t what the men to find this out.

And why are you a UFMA client? Can’t you find a woman from your own country? International marriages have a 20% divorce rate. US divorce rate is 50%. Let us know how your search goes for a woman from UFMA. I hate to tell you this. You are not going to find your wife there. They have a flawed system. They have 2 interpreters and 1 office manager. I am with an agency the same size and they have 15 interpreters, 4 office managers and a full time driver. You think there’s something wrong here?

Go to the website and you will get a full screen webpage interruption for a chat request. Why? Because the girls think this is all a big joke to chat and write letters to feed their egos and drag men have way around the world to bring them gifts and take them to dinner. They don’t get feedback from the men and woman because the owner is too busy trying to milk YOU for more money. I feel sorry for you. I really do.

Oh yea. By the way. Statistically only about 5% of Ukrainian woman and the men pursuing them in this process will succeed. Why? Because the men go after much younger woman then themselves. Any credible agency will advice you to not pursue woman 10-15 years difference than you. UFMA has a utube video telling men 20 years difference and more is “normal” for Ukrainian woman. This is a blatant lie. Why does the agency advice this? Because they have all young girls way to young for their clients. Don’t believe me? Go browse their website. The majority of the girls are between 22-37. You are in for a bad experience sir.

Mr. Peter. Good for you and your wife. I am very happy for you. You are the exception to the rule. Just because you found someone doesn’t make UFMA a great agency. It means you were lucky. That’s all.

Hi Mr. Peter. Thanks for your reply. I like that picture of you drinking on that boat with a beer gut. You are a real keeper.

Anyway, glad things worked out for you. For now. You are 52 and she is 34. Hope you put that beer down and start working out because things might change when you are 57 and she is 39. LMAO!?!

I mentioned the issue about the interpreters because it shows how unorganized they are. They dont have enough people working there and that's why nothing gets done. Yes I know all the interpreters. And by the way I dated Lena and we liked each other but you know how it goes. I was there in June and they put Lena with me and a girl I was communicating with for 9 months. Not too bright on the part of the agency. And by the way Lena is still available on the UFMA site however she is 8 months pregnant. Well, I guess that will be a big surprise for her next meeting.

So Mr. Peter. Are you good at Math? Go to the UFMA site. They claim to have 300 men come through there agency and 70 % of them go home meeting a lady and in a relationship. Well, 70% of 300 equals 210. Right? Yet there are only 18 women listed as married. So Mr. Peter, what happened to the other 192 relationships? Well what happened? The agency destroyed them that's what happened. Because they are too busy collecting money to stay afloat rather then talk to the men and the woman and try to get feedback from them so they are not wasting each others time.

And no I did not have a fight with them. I trusted them for a year and all they do is thieve money from men. With few exceptions the girls subsidize their $200.00 a month income with money, laptops and expensive dinners from the men the drag half way around the world to take advantage of.

Thanks for the reply Mr. Peter. Now put that beer down and do some sit-ups if you can get high enough off the floor. LMAO.

No laptops or anything else like that. Pay attention. S****** did a utube video about that and then took it down because he made the agency look bad and didn’t realize it. Oh by the way I went to another city and did just fine. That’s why I know those girls are not sincere to be married. Look at their ages. Most are between 22-37. Too young. I realize you think this age gap is a joke now but you may not later. If you get a chance S****** did a video telling men 20 years difference and even more is Okay because it suits his needs. According to statistics the average successful marriage between a Ukrainian lady and a foreign man is a little less than 10 years. He also goes onto say that big age gaps are common in the Ukraine which is a blatant lie. I have been there enough to know and have met with enough people to know this is not true. Anyway, they will get a marriage from time to time but according to their interpreters not in the last two years. I would advice anyone looking for a wife in the Ukraine to stay as far way from UFMA as possible. You will never find your wife there and waste time and money. There are agencies all over Ukraine so you don’t need to go into that system.

I hope the lady you married does not read what you just wrote. Some of the ladies 40-50 years old have better bodies than girls 25-35 and their children already have life’s of their own and have no wish to immigrate. So what if they have ex husbands. That means if you are just a little better than the alcoholic men in the Ukraine they will be happy. Honestly we are similar in age and 40-45 is the best age range. I see from this last comment you listened to that idiot that runs UFMA and this is why they have very few marriages and already some divorces. I am glad you posted this last comment because it shows the idiotic mentality of the agency. Please, by all means keep posting more comments because you are proving my point and making the agency look bad at the same time.

Yes I have just gotten back from Nikolaev and some of the woman in there 40’s have better bodies than woman in there 20’s. You need to remember something. Your wife is not your property and she can leave anytime she wants. Don’t worry. Let’s see what happens with you in 5 years and see if you think this is all so funny. Sounds like you are superficial and married just so you can show your friends you married a younger woman. This is going to backfire on you. She will not need someone like you.

Better re read what I wrote. Best age range is 40-45 for men in our age. Did I not write this? 40-45. I see UFMA was the perfect place for you to find someone. You have no respect for woman just as they do not. Now put that beer down and try to do one sit up. LMAO!

I am thinking of doing the same thing. Did you do a 3 day marriage or did you register and marry 30 days later?

Actually I broke my own rule. The lady I am with is 36! Hahahahahaha

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c06f3UJYfao&t=178s

Hahahahahahahahaha What an idiot. 20 year difference. Yea right.

I landed in Odessa and drove to Nikolaev. Odessa looked very run down to me. Basically everyone there lives in poverty.

You're [censored]ing crazy. You said you don't support that big difference and at the same time you date 36 year old woman. There's no sense in what you're saying.

I don’t support this idea however sometimes you need to look at the circumstances. I run ultra marathons and keep in good condition for my job so I am not 50 pounds overweight like some men. There are always exceptions to the rule but for UFMS this is the rule. Why? Go look at the girls on the site. The majority are between 22-37. To young for this process except to make money for the agency. What can I say? Go ahead and deal with this thief. You will suffer in the end. Did you know you can use Viber to communicate with these girls anytime and anywhere for free? UFMA won’t tell you this because they think all foreigners are rich and all they will do is suck every penny they can get out of you. Go ahead and find out the hard way.

Peter are you an idiot? The girls I other agencies are sincere and give their personal information so you don’t have to chat for $60.00 an hour which is what S****** wants you to do so he can bleed every last penny out of the men. Do the girls, interpreters or S****** tell the men to use Viber? Nope. Why? Because he only cares about his best interests and no one else’s. I was in that office in Nikolaev and they have an entire floor with 8 rooms and all the interpreters are always busy translating letters, Skype or arranging meetings. It’s a real agency and not some garbage dump like ****.

Since we are having such a nice conversation, do you care to exchange some information about some of the girls you met other than your wife. I’ll go first. 250, 407, 464. Okay it’s your turn.

And before you write back, put down that beer and extra large cheese pizza and try to do one sit up if you can get past your fat gut. You and S****** are in the same condition. I stayed in an apartment next to the Irish pub and S***** could barely make it up to the third floor. I thought he was going to pass out. LMAO!

I put up a couple of complaints on trust pilot and he panicked and had them take them down. No matter. He would have been better off leaving them there because now I will just put different ones up. Bye a**wipe.

I am not going to involve another agency. Why would I? Their are many agencies in Nikolaev as well as Kharkiv. And thank you for your concern because I have met a few very good woman in Nikolaev and one in particular who I chat with every day and I will be going back to see soon to arrange our marriage. Looking back now it was for the best I did not marry the girl from Kharkiv as I began to see some personality traits that would have been a problem if we were to get married. I don’t mind so much things didn’t work out at **** I just didn’t like wasting my time with woman that are not sincere.

I am glad you responded. Let’s do some math and please go ahead and check my statements. On the **** site they claimed to have over 300 men use their service. They also claim 70% of men leave with a serious relationship. Well that means there are at least 210 relationships yet only 18 ladies have marriage written across their profile picture. And this information is at least 2 years old so many more men have come through ****. So answer me this, what happened to the other 282 relationships? I will tell you what happened. The ladies and the agency destroyed them because the girls ran right back to the chat room and started talking with other men so they could visit them and bring them to dinner and give them expensive gifts. Actually ****** did a video on utube telling men to stop giving girls laptops and $200.00 in cash for a taxi ride home. But this is how these woman are.

Well I feel a little sorry for the lady I was seeing in Kharkiv. She makes less than $200.00 a month working like crazy, I hope everything works out for her in life. It is sad she has to support herself and her parents on such little wages but this is common in the Ukraine. As I said I have moved on and it works out rarely in this process especially at ****. LMAO. So, you don’t want to share which ladies you met? Come on maybe we have dated the same ladies.

How can you say simple math is BS? This process is suppose to result in marriages not letters and chats. Yes sometimes it works out when 2 people are serious and committed.

How about this one. I think I told you this but let me refresh your memory. One of the ladies I was seeing but I was involved with someone else. Surprisingly she interpreted for me and a lady which that in itself is ridiculous. Now here’s the best part. She is in a relationship with someone I believe in the Ukraine and she is available in the **** agency. However she is pregnant. Don’t you think that might be worth mentioning?

Last one and I didn’t want to go here but since you insist there is a redhead girl that joined the agency at a questionable age and I will leave it at that because the [censored] agency will take any girl that walks in off the street. Have a great day and say hi to S******* for me. Maybe he is looking for a bunch of 18 year old girls to set them up with 60 year old guys! LMAO!

Hahahahahaha That couldn’t possibly be S*******. I was the only client there for the entire month of June. Can you imagine that. June is a prime summer month for this industry. He is too busy getting 20 something year old girls to chat with 60 something year old men. If you get a chance go to Trustpilot and look up UFMA. S****** tried to have both of my complaints removed and Trustpilot left them there. I already have 282 hits. Check it out.

Tour prices are calculated by days and nights clients are in Kharkiv? Right? So again how are clients supposed to meet girls at 11:00 at night and 5:00 in the morning? I hate to tell you this but you just admitted you are over charging by your own admission by collecting money for doing nothing. To be fair you should be charging one less night and one less day and then charge a fee to pick up and drop off at the airport. I paid $50.00 for a 2 1/2 hour taxi from Nikolaev to Odessa so how much could a 20 minute ride to Kharkiv airport cost? Maybe 1/2 of that. Max $25.00.
I never said you overcharged just me, you are overcharging everyone. Thief.

Oh yes. Excuse me. You or your sincere women don’t tell men about viber so you can collect $60.00 an hour it is only $51.54 an hour. My mistake. Don’t worry. They make up for dragging men half way around the world to give them expensive dinners and gifts.

And where are you when all this is going on? Why are you not getting feed back from the woman and men so they are not wasting their time and money when all they want to do is get on with their lives. I told you DAY 1 with Elena there was something wrong and what did you tell me? “Just meet other woman.” What kind of a idiotic statement is that? We were corresponding for almost a year as the letter I posted said and she was making sure I had all my paperwork to be married in the Ukraine. You know this because you found out all this information. I will tell you exactly what happened with her. I am sorry to say this but she, and 99% of your girls, are insincere about this process. They dream about getting married and leaving the Ukraine and when the opportunity was there she got scared. The girls like to live in this fairy tale mentality and it gives them an escape from their lives. Come on S******, you don’t get anybody married all you do is get 60 year old men to correspond with 20 year old girls and thieve their money. I saw some of the new girls. 20 years old? Really? All you ever talked about in the taxi is about how the men who come to you have all these problems. Well, then why take their money when you know they will not find a wife? Thief.

And nothing against Elena because I hope she meets someone but why did you guys drag me 1/2 way around the world 3 times for this nonsense. Do you know what your problem is? You blame the men for everything. You know the people you take money from to keep your sham of a business going. If you had just listen to me and talked to Elena to see what was going on maybe she would have admitted it was not going to work out between us I could have gotten on with my life but no you just don’t have time to do your job and in the end it is easy to blame the men when things don’t work out. I am not upset about Elena. There are 11 million more Slavic girls then men right now and I will find one. It is you that is the problem and the way you run your agency. That is why you don’t produce marriages and the some of the few marriages you have produced already ended in divorce.

All flights that come into Kharkiv are on a schedule. This is nothing new and your clients can’t control when the plane lands. What do you want them to do? When I went home from Nikolkaev the driver was there at 2:30 in the morning to bring me to the airport. Do you expect them to walk into Kharkiv?

You are not running a bed and breakfast you are running a sham of a marriage agency. You should be charging fees when meeting woman not staying in an apartment.

You are the one that advised me to get aquatinted with a girl 27 years younger than me. You have to be the only agency to suggest such an idiotic idea. Every agency in the Ukraine will tell you no more than 10 years maybe up to 15. You just don’t care what happens to your clients as long as you get paid. Thief.

You said previously Elena refused my gifts. Liar! Let’s count what she has from me. 2 beautiful sets of earrings, necklace and pendent. Yes she gave me a hand made coaster and I appreciate that. Now my turn. When I gave her the necklace for Valentine’s Day do you know what she did? I had the waitress bring the box to our table on a plate and place it in front of her. I told her happy Valentine’s Day and do you know what she did? She took the box without opening it and put it in her purse like it was some piece of garbage. I asked her to at least take it out and look at it. She tried it on and complained it was too long. I told her I would exchange it for one she would like better no problem. She just closed the box, put it back in her purse and that was it. You said I was ungrateful for the coaster she made for me? How ungrateful was she for the necklace? I have never seen such selfish behavior from woman until I arrived at your sham agency. That’s why you don’t produce marriages because those woman are selfish and ungrateful and YOU have said this in your utube video. Exactly YOU said your woman will always except such gifts because IT IS IN THEIR NATURE. Well put.

And go ahead and ask Anna if this happened. She was sitting across from us watching the whole thing. I still can’t believe that happened. Thank God I am out of your garbage agency. What a mistake I made coming there in the first place.

You have more complaints about your agency than you do marriages! What does that tell you gentlemen? Hahahahahaha what a joke your agency is.

What’s the matter s****** ? You don’t like when people screw around with your life do you? You can keep getting Trustpilot to take down what ever you want because it is too late already. I had 290 reads on my first two posts and 30+ on my second 2 posts. I know you are not good at math as seen through your web site but that’s 320 reads. I am sure I helped a few men avoid your garbage agency and they took my advice and went elsewhere. I wonder how much $$$$$ you lost? Oh well we will never know. I noticed from time to time many ladies on your site just sitting there with no one to chat with. Sorry

Why do you ask such questions AFTER you have been to UFMA and used their service and not before?
If you don't like the price, simply don't pay and don't go there. Isn't that simple? Why did you pay the price and got the service and then ask for some explanations? Do you normally do that in your everyday life too?
There are no rooms for 10 dollars there and you have intentionally written nonsense to make him do excuses in front of you. You are just showing yourself from a silly side. You need to accept that the woman left you and follow your own road, these scandals won't make any use for you.
I would recommend Sergey also not to answer you in this way and not to fuel this conflict. It doesn't look good for both of you.

Clearly you do not understand the entire situation. Sergey encouraged me to persue a girl 27 years younger than myself. Why? because at the particular time he was busy doing something and it was easy just for him to say “oh elena is a very mature woman” which by the way she was not. I made a big mistake listening to him and to her. The woman in his agency use it to feed their egos, get men to bring them to expensive dinners, flowers and receive expensive gifts. They have no intention of getting married. All I did is merely let this situation present itself and when I realized what was actually going on I left. It is that simple. However here is the point. Sergey is a person who does not expect responsibility for himself, the actions of his agency and the actions of the woman he represents. He runs a marriage agency? Correct? Then why doesn’t he get people married? Because getting people married doesn’t make him a profit. Sir, I was there in Kharkiv. I was with his agency and I know his tactics. I made a huge mistake by taking his advice. As for the lady she would not leave me alone. To be honest she kept writing me texting me and was very vocal in her wishes to meet me. She had no intention to be married and Sergey has just thrown her back into his agency to do the same think to the next guy. She kept telling me for almost a year how she wanted to create a new life with me. So I ask you. How do you know when someone is telling the truth and when someone is lying. I believed her and believed Sergey when he told me she was a sincere lady. Absolutely not true. Yes things didn’t work out in the end which was for the best and now I am with a different agency and all is going quite well. I’m closing I was there in Kharkiv and I know this guys shenanigans. I am trying to help other men to avoid such a garbage agency. You want to go? Then go. What can I say.

Bye the way we were never married so how could she leave me? Lmao. Oh yes. From now on I will do my posts here, on Trustpilot and on site jabber at a room for $25.00 a day which is probably more than it costs. Have you been to Kharkiv? I have. Teachers there make $200.00 a month so maybe you need to brush up on your math. If a teacher were to rent an apartment at $10.00 a day that is $300.00 a month. If they only make $200.00 a month how can they afford food and cloths? I am telling you I have met many woman in Kharkiv and they have told me their rent is no more than $200.00 a month so how can an apartment be more than $10.00 a day.

How about this. This is a public question. You don’t believe an apartment is more than $10.00 a day? Well tell me how much is it then? Excuse me? So you don’t know? Then how do you know it is more expensive than $10.00 a day? I know. Let’s ask Sergey how much an apartment is for a week and let’s see if this justifies $441.00 a day. Sergey, we are waiting to know how much that s hole next to the Irish pub you stick your clients in costs.

Sir as to your question why don’t I simply not go there? I don’t. But I don’t want their men to get taken advantage of like he did to me. Thank you for replying though because it gives me more chances to do more posts. Lmao

Hey RalfVisser

I like your ridiculous selfie photo! :)))) I think you better get rid of that gut you have before you go to UFMA :)))) I have an idea! You and Sergey should stop stuffing your faces and start doing some sit-ups. Maybe when the interpreter Anna was in my apartment and told me there was a client staying there that was so fat he could not fit into the bathroom. I guess she was talking about you:))) oh yea you will do well at UFMA!

Ok Ralf

How much does UFMA charge for a room? Oh, you don’t know. Then how do you know it is more than $10.00 a night? Waiting for your answer if you can put that pizza down.

Dude, I've been reading, but you consistently sound like the guy who turns friends into neutrals, and neutrals into enemies. You've ended up mocking everyone who has engaged with you, over their physical appearance.

stop posting your crap so that other people who have positive experiences can write! You sound like a pathetic crying baby; you only are a man who needs people's attention and sadly is full of anger! Go see a shrink, that is if one can help you!

Corfa, which girl did you marry?

Hi Sergey. I see you don’t like my replies on Trustpilot. Bye the way I am up to over 900 reads on sitejabber. I wonder how much $$&$ you have lost because of me,

Stop posting your crap so that other people who have positive experiences can write! You sound like a pathetic crying baby; you only are a man who needs people's attention and sadly is full of anger! Go see a shrink, that is if one can help you!

LOL. Mr. Corfa

Which lady did you marry from UFMA?

Everything is going fine thanks. Did she leave you yet? It is coming. And how’s that beer gut? What are you about 100 pounds overweight by now? LMAO.