Waffle House

Group of friends and I went to a waffle house in myrtle beach, sc (711 frontage rd e, myrtle beach, sc 29577). We sat down to eat and our server was "mandy" but did not know the name nor paid much attention while looking at the menu till after the fact. So as mandy came back to the table with the drinks, who was taking forever to even come take our order after 15 mins waiting to be greeted. So my friend asked who the server was and ended up finally getting some service to the table. So we ordered drinks and not everyone was ready. When the server brought drinks to the table, I said "thank you sir" and all hell broke loose! Mandy flipped and got mad and the first words was"gtfo and I am not serving you all today! Gtfo now and kiss my a..., astonished friends and I looked at him closely and said wtf is your problem, we did not notice your name tag says:" mandy" and let alone you did not greet table with your name! Came to the table and said what do you want to drink and that is it! We were only showing respect as we have been raised to do so by saying ty sir or mam for that is how I was raised, my children to show respect to everyone, and friends. I think this server was high asf or on something for this server mandy was beyond blowing it way out of proportion than what it really was flipping on us all. Even other customers had asked server mandy to calm down for we had meant nothing by it when your talking like a man, dressed like a man, no makeup or wig, but what gave it away and made sense after the fact had little boobies growing that the waffle house employee grabbed and said this should tell you that I am transitioning to female and you need call me by mandy or mam! Turned into a big fighting and outburst by mandy, that we asked to speak to the manager in charge. The manager who refused to give a name to make a report said we can make a complaint with corp and the number is on the door. Fyi there was no number or anything to call to complaint to on door! The manager said what mandy says goes! I can not deal with my bosses with this server due to the attitude and complaints I have gotten with this server and did not want to get fired! For us to leave and not involve him in this for if he does, he will risk losing his job as supervisor there. Manager, looked like a fellow harley driver if it helps waffle house find out who he is. This was embarrassing by this establishment to condone behavior of the server this way and to be doped up with a bad attitude on the job! Forgive me for saying ty sir, for I am an old guy and only raised old school to show respect at all times unless being disrespected! Was embarrassing and I will be contacting an attorney on monday to see about how to proceed with video and/or lawsuit! Sorry if you want to be called mam, then maybe make it little more convincing than talking and dressing like a man and don't forget had unshaved faced that looks like not shaved is face for 2-3 days! As you know after 2-3 days you got a really good shadow at the very least! I demand that waffle house remembers who pays to keep lights on and employees by having customers! Customers should be treated with respect and give them at least a decent dining experience even if it is a waffle house does not mean we need to be ghetto and unruly employees with no respect and boundaries in regards to customers. When did customers have to start begging for food and doing what is told by the server? Do we get tips and services if we do? This needs to be addressed asap!