I have been off of dating sites for years because of all the predators, scammers, players, bad experience of inappropriate behavior from members of our time and other dating sites. Nothing has changed since 2012. Sites are still filled with predators etc. After receiving inappropriate sexual messages from member I decided I would change my honest, reserved, respectrul, profile to the truth about how ourtime was not protecting me from these predators or filtering through the profiles or researching the members to make sure I was protected. Our time failed to do their job. Our time did not refund my money, instead they closed my profile without contacting me. I should not have to weed through the profiles, and try to decide who is real and who is the scammers, predators. I blocked these members, but I should not have to do the work. Why should I pay and theni have to do the work. Our time needs to do the work. I am tired and exhausted from trying to weed through profiles to find a descent, honest, caring, who wants a relationship. I don't think any of the members wants a relationship they just want to talk and move on to the next profile. The dating sites are not real. Most members are just online to talk and move on, not looking for long term. This has been an exhausting, emotional bad experience. And honest members who are real, should not have to go through this. Nothing is going to change.
Dating sites are a mess, and it’s clear OurTime isn’t doing their job. Stop wasting your energy on a platform that doesn’t value your safety. Demand a refund and take your dating life offline where you can have more control. Focus on real-world interactions and protect your peace. You deserve better than dealing with scammers and predators. Take charge and don’t settle for less.